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Author: Jetlag Subject: can anyone help plz
azz786
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posted on 02-03-2006 at 10:08 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
can anyone help plz

 i have me somebody from belarus minsk fo course over the internet.
and ive been talking too her since the newyear and she sounds perfect we talk everyday and she knows when i get cold feet too but this girl is saying all the right things her english is perfect.
shes 20 im 32 so age diffrence isnt a major problem is this for real of do i just need a slap to calm myself down.
because im getting too emotionaly attached ive even went out and bout a £1000 pound engadement ring.
shes pussing all the right buttons and saying all the right things too me we dont talk about sex just hint.
im off there on 19th january and im that dumb my birthdays on the 20th feb and i wanna propose too her then.
THE QUESTION IS ARE THESE WOMEN FOR REAL THERE IS ONE PROBLEM I KNOW OF HER FRIEND WHO IS 20 IS MARRYING A 40 YEAR OLD AT THIS MOMENT.

SO IT GIVES ME COLD FEET THINKING ABOUT PASPORT HUNTING
WHAT SHOULD I DO
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ziggy925
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posted on 02-06-2006 at 20:23 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Go slow

 You haven't known her for two months and you're ready to propose? I wouldn't do it even if she was the girl nextdoor.

Meet her. Meet her family and friends. Spend some time with her and get to know her. And don't send her any money!

If it's right, you'll know soon enough.
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Jetlag
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posted on 02-08-2006 at 20:35 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Slow down

 Did you mean you're going to belarus on the 19th of February, instead of what you wrote?

Anyway, I will caution you about falling in love with a photo. Your emotional investment shouldn't take place until way after you've met her in person. There's so many pitfalls you may yet encounter and investing this much emotion may not prove to be wise.

Further, engagement rings are a western tradition, not Russian. But that part I will leave entirely up to you to do what feels right.

I am glad to hear of your pending trip. Spend the time with her and get to know her better.

Good luck.
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