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			| gunit_69 
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			Registered: 12-15-2005 Location: 
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					| posted on 12-15-2005 at 23:03 |     |  |  
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				| TOOO BIG 
 QUESTION:My girl is a virgin but im not n by her being a virgin im too big for her n i was wondering if anybody could give me steps on having sex with her without hurting her? (:)
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			| The Virgin Nurse 
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			Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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					| posted on 12-16-2005 at 23:18 |     |  |  
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				| hmm 
 Three ways:
 1.) start off with a small dildo and work the way up till she can handle your size.
 2.) Like the last message said, try masturbating her.( or the recommend position in the last message)
 3.) Foreplay
 
 That's all the advice I have now...good luck ....don't forget the condoms and birth control when you both have the "real" thing.
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			| diva 
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			Registered: 06-03-2005 Location: Birmingham, Alabama
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					| posted on 12-23-2005 at 22:20 |     |  |  
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				| Re: 
 If she has a hymen that has to be broken by surgical means only (as I do, and soon!!), there may be no such thing as having sex without pain for the first time. If she's normal, then tell her to do some of the various things that can be done to stretch the opening. Stretching in my case wouldn't work-- I almost don't even have an opening there. She can try different sized candles, from smallest and then working up, and putting a condom on them-- that's what ob/gyn's recommend for women who have that problem, but don't need surgery.
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			| The Virgin Nurse 
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			Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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					| posted on 12-25-2005 at 18:36 |     |  |  
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				| Diva! 
 your back! It's has been along time since I have seen you on the boards lately..How are you?
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			| diva 
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			Registered: 06-03-2005 Location: Birmingham, Alabama
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					| posted on 12-26-2005 at 13:52 |     |  |  
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				| Re: 
 I'm kind of okay. I go through my own drama here and there. My surgery is the friday after this one coming up... I'm not that scared, but I don't really like anesthesia. I'm actually here a lot, but most of the time there aren't a lot of new posts, so I end up just reading what I've missed. How is everything going for you?
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			| 22yearguyvirgin 
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					| posted on 01-19-2006 at 20:47 |     |  |  
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				| diva 
 
  I hope you don't mind me sying so but i hope your surgery went well and gives you everything you were looking for. I also hope to see you back posting soon as yours were some of the few intelligent and clean posts on the forum. |  
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